Robot Vs. Real: How to Make Instagram Personal and Win

Instagram Do’s and Don’ts: How To Make Instagram Personal and Work the Algorithm

Want to know how to achieve success on Instagram? Make Instagram personal. We will show you the necessary do’s and don’ts to grow on today’s Instagram. 

Jodie and I have been on Instagram, working it, studying it, researching it, and overall obsessing over it for over 4 years. We’ve also been working as consultants for individuals and companies to help them grow their Instagram accounts. We’ve learned a ton, and every day we learn more. With Instagram, there is no resting on your laurels. On this fast-paced, always fluid platform there can be lamenting over “the good ole days.” And if you do, you’re just wasting valuable time and energy. The real key to success on Instagram today is to make Instagram personal. Just how do you do this? We’ve got the answers right here.

Once again, we are here to share our most recent insights and epiphanies which are direct results of our most current research, as well as our study and analysis of who is succeeding and why. Let’s get started!

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If you haven’t read our post on the Instagram Trust Score we know you will want to read it as well.

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IG Followers Want the Full Package

As it turns out, Instagram is very smart. When we say Instagram, we mean both the platform itself (the algorithm that drives all activity) and the people on it.

While pictures are still the number one most important aspect of Instagram, also of key importance is the personality behind the photos. More than ever Instagram rewards feeds not based on actual followers, but on feeds whose followers are active and engaged. A large feed is no longer the greatest asset, engagement with your followers is the most important thing.  This truly levels the playing field for all. It’s quite simple: Feeds who produce the highest quality posts that engage the greatest percentage of their followers will be rewarded.  And people engage with people they enjoy and care about.

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This is where personality comes into play. Success and growth are awarded to accounts who offer the full package: awesome and inspiring photos accompanied by darling, fun, witty, engaging, real and warm personality, or feeds that invite people to interact. Followers want to engage with people they want to hang out with. People who invite their followers in and make them feel a genuine connection will reap the biggest rewards.

How do you do this? Be awesome, be real, and don’t hold back. Be your wittiest, sweetest, most engaging self, both on your posts and in your stories. Give authentically for the pure joy of giving and you will receive. Don’t give with a goal in mind but give selflessly. Don’t give looking for ROI or you will not come off authentically. Remember, people are smart. Be in it to give with no return. Develop real relationships and you develop a loyal, engaged following.

Believe in Yourself

This may sound very basic and obvious, but this is essential. You must begin by believing in yourself. At the very least, you must begin by believing in your own potential. This doesn’t mean thinking you’re all that or being full of yourself. This is not what I mean at all. I mean believe that if you stay committed you will get there eventually.

If you don’t believe in yourself how do you expect the world to believe in you? Just go for it. Nothing ventured nothing gained. The only real failure lies in quitting before you achieve your goals.

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Be Authentic to Make Instagram Personal

Again, at the risk of sounding cliche I will say it anyway: Be yourself. Everyone else is taken. Gosh, this world is full of people putting on facades and acting a part. It’s tiresome and honestly not what people even want. The world wants real people with real lives.

Jodie and I have never tried or wanted to be anything but who we really are. Good thing! As I said before, the world is smart. Give the world credit for being able to determine if you are being real or fake, because they can.

Be Transparent to Make Instagram Personal

The more personal and honest you are the more you bond with your audience. Let your audience into your heart, not just your home. This is not necessarily easy, and many people aren’t willing to go this far. But if you are, it is a true gift you give to people. Just as in life, the more you give the more you get in return.

Engagement is everything, and when you take risks with true transparency it pays off. Let down your guard, confess it all, speak from your heart and reveal your secrets. Not only are you bonding with your audience, creating a trust and closeness, but you will also invite a lot more conversation and response. Showing your vulnerable side can be scary, but if you are brave enough to reveal the real you, you will be rewarded.

For more tips on how to improve your Instagram game and make IG personal, read this Instagram success blog post.

If you’re prepared to start viewing Instagram as a job, we invite you to join us in our comprehensive online course called “From Confused to Confident: 6 Steps to Instagram Success.” We can help you achieve your dreams. Learn all about it and sign up for our Instagram success course here.

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Understanding the Algorithm

The changes happening on Instagram have one main goal in mind: to create a better experience for the user. The advancements in the algorithm are able to discern with increasing accuracy the difference between real and fake accounts. Even if you are a real person, be mindful of certain activities that IG may interpret as robotic and penalize you for, such as:

  • Following or unfollowing too many people in a short amount of time. If this is a goal of yours, limit the amount you follow and unfollow and spread out this task over time. You should not exceed 60/hour.
  • Commenting on too many accounts in a short amount of time.  The max allowed is 60/hour.
  • Liking too many accounts in a short period of time. No more than 150/hour.
  • Repeating the same comments or replies too many times.  Try to make each response unique.
  • Reposting exact content.
  • Repeating the exact same hashtags over and over. Do not use hashtag lists that you copy and paste. Make each post unique for that post.

For more of what NOT to do be sure to read our post “10 Instagram Mistakes you are Making.”

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Show your Personality to Make Instagram Personal

Now that we’ve listed what not to do, let’s focus on what you should do! For more on what you need to create an incredible IG post, be sure to read “How to Create Instagram Posts that Go Viral.

Via Your posts:

Maybe you are funny, or clever or poetic, or maybe you are young, hip and cool. One way to show your personality is by using conversational language. It’s called “train of thought” writing and it’s more than acceptable as a real way to communicate with your followers in your post. I’m talking to you English majors! This is no time to quibble over semantics or worry about grammar. It is still, however, important to proofread. That auto-correct can be brutal. You always want to read over your post before hitting ‘post.’

If you can make your readers/followers feel like you are in a conversation with them this is a great way to draw them in and endear yourself to them.

Via Your Stories:

This is where you can really shine. Stories are your gateway to revealing who you are and letting people get a glimpse of the real you. Yes, you want to deliver some content. You may want to give sneak peaks of decor updates, give the behind the scenes of DIY projects and craft how-to’s. But in the downtime between projects, you want to use stories just to chat with your virtual friends.

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I try to make time every day for stories, and many days I am just saying, “Hi.” This is where you can share the personal side of what’s going on in your life. You can include your family members or your dogs or whatever contributes to your day. People want to know, so make it personal and authentic. To read more about all the ways you can use stories to up your game on Instagram be sure to read our recent post “How to Make the Most of Instagram Stories

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How to Make Instagram Personal: Recap

Across Instagram, no matter what your niche, there are three important goals:

Goal #1: Create Beauty. Your posts must be creative, artistic and visually engaging.

Goal #2: Maintain a consistent essence of your brand throughout your feed.

Goal #3: Inspire a response in your followers.

How do you inspire a response? This is the crux. Your photos, posts and words must:

  • catch the eye
  • elicit emotion
  • entertain
  • inspire curiosity
  • tell a story

If you achieve one or more of these important goals on every post, you will succeed.  To succeed and make Instagram personal you must truly inspire people. Someone asked me recently if I thought success on Instagram involved luck. My answer is absolutely not. It involves hard work, dedication and all the things in between. Great feeds consistently inspire in one or more of the above ways, and the best ones achieve them all. In order to inspire others, you must first be inspired. So, bring your passions, your dedication, and your heart to the table. But most of all, love the process.

Happy creating and happy connecting!

Extra Instagram Help & Coaching

Now that you’ve learned how to make your Instagram personal, let’s work on taking your account to the next level. Now is the perfect time to start taking your Instagram goals seriously. Don’t wait any longer! Sign to receive our 90-minute Personalized Instagram Audit today. We inspect every aspect of your account, create a clear plan just for you, and coach you personally for your ultimate success on Instagram.

Jodie and I have been helping clients grow their Instagram accounts for years. Many past students are now successful influencers and have grown their brands beyond their wildest imaginations. This could be you!

It’s time to invest in yourself and your goals, because you deserve it.

jodie & julie


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  1. Lynn says:

    I was also wondering if IG can interpret our engagement through our stories? Sometimes I get more DMs than I do comments, so I was just curious.

    Thanks so much for all y’all do ????

  2. Beth says:

    Wow! Lots of great info here. Thanks so much for all your insight on IG. It can be quite baffling at times.

    • jjdesigntwins says:

      Hi Beth,
      Well, we would agree with you there. IG is often baffling. But sometimes you just have to be here and present yourself as best you can and let go of the outcomes. Instagram goes up and down with engagement and activity so we do our best, focus on being our best and enjoy the journey! Many blessings as you enjoy yours. With gratitude, Julie & Jodie

  3. Pam H says:

    Lots of great info – you are both so sweet and kind and I love your way of sharing- like discussing Instagram with a BFF over tea!
    Will definitely put your suggestions into use over the coming months I am insta-story shy (not even sure why – I was a spokesperson for home sewing and crafts companies for years and did lots of t.v.) but I do think people might enjoy my process of making things and my less than perfect studio from time to time. Sorry for blathering on – love you guys!

    • jjdesigntwins says:

      What a great reply! Thank you, honey! You just made my morning 🙂 So let’s continue to offer encouragement: definitely don’t overthink the stories…the more REAL you are the better. People don’t require polished and professional…in fact, they can get that on the news channels if that’s what they’re looking for. Be you, share your life, your passions, and let your followers get to know you. Come on in the water’s fine 🙂 Blessings, Julie & Jodie

  4. Mallory says:

    So good and so true! I truly love learning from you ladies! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us!

    • jjdesigntwins says:

      Mallory, Your sweet replies are so appreciated. Hundreds (thousands) of people read our blog and a tiny fraction take the time to reply, so honestly, yo are a gift to us. To hear your sweet and bubbly feedback means ever so much. Thank you and we sincerely hope you continue to come back and enjoy. Blessings, Julie & Jodie

  5. Mary says:

    Great information! Thank you!

    • jjdesigntwins says:

      Thank you so much for taking the time to read and leave a kind reply. We are so glad you found this post helpful. And we hope you will continue your IG education by reading our many other Instagram help posts currently on the blog and to come! Have fun on your journey, with gratitude, Julie & Jodie

  6. joanmechlin, joni says:

    Such great advice. You have given me answers in many areas of my Instagram where I was questioning myself.

    • jjdesigntwins says:

      Joan, We are so excited to hear you found answers in our post! Yay! That makes us truly happy to hear. We hope you will continue to read the many other Instagram blog posts we have to continue your “IG education” so to speak. Thank you for your kind reply. Wishing you all great things along your journey. XO ~ Julie & Jodie

  7. Patti says:

    Hello ladies, once again an informative and insightful blog post. Thank you both for being so giving.
    Patti ♥️

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  10. LaRonda says:

    Thank you ladies for sharing all of your Instagram knowledge. We are in the process of getting our Instagram up and going. Reading through all of your Instagram posts have been very very helpful and fun!! I appreciate all the research that you have put into these posts.

    I still have one question if you would be so kind to answer. What are the steps taken to promote someone else on Instagram? Thank you!

    • jjdesigntwins says:

      Hi LaRonda,
      I’m not entirely certain what you mean by “promote someone” on Instagram. I’m assuming you mean share someone? We do talk about etiquette on IG on our blog post of that title (search etiquette in the search field). But briefly anyone can share anyone as long as you give clear and proper credit. Tag them in the photo to make sure they see they are being featured. In the post itself their name and IG address should be stated clearly (and not the last thing like an afterthought). People share others all the time so be certain that the photo you are featuring is indeed the person whose feed you found it on. When Jodie and I feature someone we like to do more than just tag a name to it. We really like to share more about the person, their account, why we love them etc. But this is just how we like to do it. Hopefully that is what you were asking. Wishing you the best, Julie

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